The Singleness Series Welcome to Episode 1 of the Singleness Series! Before we talk about finding a husband, dating, courtship, marriage, or maximizing your singleness, I think we have to start with knowing who God is to us. Do you call Him Father? Friend? King? Lord? Olólùfẹ́, the Lover of your soul? You have to know who God is to you before you can choose to submit to what He has to say about creation, your life, and the way you should live. Jesus Himself gave us an example

I've finally done it! I posted a long-form video on my YouTube channel, and the pilot episode of the Singleness Series is officially up and running. Faithful People, the Lord has been telling me to do this for years. And if I'm being completely honest, my delayed obedience had a lot to do with one thing: I never wanted to be this vulnerable. Giving biblical advice and sharing your personal testimony are two very different things. I thought this whole “leading people to Christ

Last night, I lived out one of my favorite realities: like-minded people gathered around a table having meaningful and fulfilling conversations. It reminded me why I love it so much. Five ladies joined me in person and three joined online for our latest Dollar Date. Yes, it’s a thing. Look it up: #DollarDate (and it’ll probably lead you to one of my old videos lol). It’s the place where we talk about money, tithing, saving, budgeting, and A LOT of Bible. Last night, they had

I get so much energy at night. I've been this way since I started drinking coffee regularly and with the last cup being drunk at 5pm, it is no surprise that I get so much energy at night. It's currently 10:06 pm where I am and I should be in bed. Honestly, I feel like today was such a productive day as it is but for some reason I feel led to write. So here I am using all the energy I have left for the day to share something very personal with you all. I have been single all m

Writing has always been easier for me in hard times. In college, I wrote constantly. Whatever I could get my hands on was covered with journal entries, poems, or songs. Now, I write blogs. Since this website is a relatively quiet place, generating very little traffic in a given month, I can say this is a safe place to write. It's a place discovered only by others like me, in seasons like mine, seeking the Lord with all their heart. All this to say that you all (well, the thre

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In seasons of growth, there is a temptation to minimize growth, to practice false modesty by pretending you haven’t changed much. But true humility does not require denial. God didn’t walk you through this season of discipline, healing, obedience, and consistency for you to pretend you’re still the same because you are not. Growth Leaves Evidence Take a look at your life. You respond differently. You move differently. You think differently. You make choices differently. Growt

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Boldness is often misunderstood. People think boldness is loud, often interpreted as unnecessary and annoying. I mean if someone was unapologetic and stubborn at a time they should be humble, I am understand that logic. But being confident and unshakable in Christ is a different kind of boldness. Godly boldness is quieter than that. It doesn’t announce itself or compete. It doesn't seek external validation, it simply stands. Boldness Is Born From Alignment You don’t just wake

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